KUYA

"Hi all, this is not the usual love story nga inyo ma basa. This is actually the love story of my brother. It was really a tragic one that until now very heart breaking pa jud. And it's so sad to see him so depressed and seems like he wanted to die. (simbako). 

My kuya had a girlfriend for almost 10 years. They were friends since kinder and their love story started when they were in high school. 2 years ra ang gap namo ni kuya so we are very close since kami ra pod duha magsuon. My brother and ate Jo was really a perfect couple, they both graduated with flying colors in med school. Everything was smooth and beautiful life for the two of them. Di na sila halos ma buwag, basta as in Im a living testimony of their love story, it was really magical. 

I always look up to their relationship and tell them I wish I could have mine too. They're in a LDR for almost 2 years since ate Jo worked abroad and kuya stayed because he wanted to spend time with my parents since they're already old (they got married late) and wanted to be a hands on son. My kuya is a very intelligent man which every girl likes and a good man also. Same as ate jo, plus points kay super pretty pod sya. Anyway back to the main story, after 2 years ate Jo came back to Philippines for good and they both decided to get married. It was a fairytale like that we thought they'll live happily ever after. Not until ate Jo was diagnosed with leukemia, at first we didnt believe the news but unfortunately it was true. 3 hospitals amo gi adtuan but same ra jud tanan ilang findings and of course kuya as a med grad kahibaw na jud to sya daan nga mao na to, di lang nila ma digest ang reality nga naay sakit si ate Jo. 5 months passed ate jo's situation's got worse. Her skin had so many rashes and she could barely talk. Si kuya halos adto na mo puyo sa hospital, di jud niya ma biyaan si ate jo 😞 kay anytime pwede na mo biya si ate. And on her 6th month sa hospital she gave up, wa na si ate jo. She died 2 am in the morning and it's very heart breaking kay wala si kuya sa iya tapad. We rushed to the hospital and di jud madala, ni yaka jud si kuya sgeg hilak. Sakit to see him like that, sakit man gani dawaton para nako, samot na niya. 

And after that moment hantud gi cremate si ate Jo, hilom na kaayo si kuya. He's not the jolly kuya anymore. Permi ra sya mag puyo sa kwarto. One afternoon while padung ko mag hatud para sa iyang pagkaon, madungog jud mako mag storya2 sya as if naa si ate jo. 😭😭 I feel so sad for my brother. Di na sya mo sulod sa work, di na halos makig storya namo, there were times na he will come to hug me then hilak ug maayo. Maka hilak pod kog apil seeing him like that. My parents were very worried sa akong kuya to the point na ubanan nila mama si kuya sa kwarto matulog because basin mag suicide sya. Mag 1 year na padulong since nawala si ate Joan yet akong kuya wa pajud ka recover sa tragedy nahitabo sa iyang life. Naa gae times na mag sge syag tutok sa pictures nila ni ate. As in mag bakho syag kalit. 😭😭💔💔💔 Time heals pero si kuya dmd. It's very painful jud. 

So bottomline of this confession is that we should never forget to let the important person in our lives how much we love them. Always make an extra effort to tell them how much they mean to you even in a simple way because we never know, maybe the next day we won't be able to show it anymore. 

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